By now you've probably realized tall dark and handsome with a name like Prince Charming... Has NEVER been on my dating list. I've had my own version but nothing like the fairy tales.
"You know how when you were a little kid and you believed in fairy tales, that fantasy of what your life would be, white dress, prince charming who would carry you away to a castle on a hill. You would lie in bed at night and close your eyes and you had complete and utter faith. Santa Claus, the Tooth Fairy, Prince Charming, they were so close you could taste them, but eventually you grow up, one day you open your eyes and the fairy tale disappears. Most people turn to the things and people they can trust. But the thing is its hard to let go of that fairy tale entirely cause almost everyone has that smallest bit of hope, of faith, that one day they will open their eyes and it will come true." -Grey's Anatomy
A Kalon doesn't expect perfection initially. She isn't PERFECT. She wants HER perfect, mind you.
Perfect is how we are perceived by another person, not a classification or a guideline to follow. If I teach you ladies ANYTHING, it's to be THE girl. Don't fall into being a classification. Be someone special's PERFECT.
Perfect contains many characteristics, traits, personalities, talents... (this may be my longest post yet!)
First and foremost, he's my BEST FRIEND and I TRUST him with my life. He is HONEST. He APPRECIATES me and the things I do for him. He LOVES me for me, he doesn't try to change me.
It wouldn't work anyhow. This is how they are.
No SMOKING. PATIENCE is a virtue.
A must, dating them.
He TRUSTS in GOD and the BIBLE. He keeps me HAPPY. He loves the many ANIMALS I bring home. He owns a pair of BOOTS and WEARS them. He SADDLES his own horse. He drives a TRUCK. He makes PLANS for us. He's SWEET without needing to be reminded, all the time. He buys me DAISIES and ONLY DAISES.
They are all that's acceptable.
He's OPEN MINDED and GROUNDED. He cherishes FAMILY and having OUR own. I love his FAMILY, they are COMFORTABLE to me. TIMING is precedence. He keeps good HYGIENE.
Some of them didn’t brush their teeth. *Cough,cough* The Lesson.
He LEARNS from his mistakes. He has his OWN hobbies however, so he doesn’t get on my NERVES. He thinks I’m CUTE when I get angry, cuss, and yell. He loves to WRESTLE with me in a totally NON SEXUAL way. He puts my NEEDS before his. His WORK ETHIC is admirable. He TAKES EXTRA CARE of me when I’m sickly. SURPRISES he’s best at. He PUTS UP with all my shit, moods, ridiculous ideas, and even temper tantrums. He knows I want a BIG HUGE DIAMOND one day! Oh, and he knows we will ELOPE!
She can dream. She doesn’t want much because most of this should come naturally, but she’s got an idea of what she wants.
Hey, it’s a start!
