Yes, this is something men and women are equally guilty of however, I'm not when I'm flowering over a guy. The Lesson was King of all Ditchers (not always this way mind you) but quite frequently I was becoming less and less of a priority.
Now, A Kalon doesn't ask to be THE priority just simply some place BEFORE youre smoking habits, playing poker, video games, you get the idea here. She understands "the guys" should be important but DO NOT tell her you will come over then call her before she's expecting to hear you knocking on the door and tell her you just got an invitation on five dollar buy ins. You should be kicked in the nuts for this.
-Thanks